No Guy Should Ever Say This To His Girlfriend

So…sometimes guys need some help in the what-not-to-say department when talking to their girlfriends. Why? Because men seem to have no filter and they say things that sometimes really hurt or piss off women. So guys…we’re just trying to help you out here….with the top ten things to NEVER say to your girlfriend.

1. “You’re not the prettiest girl I’ve dated.”

Whoa…ouch.  Be nice, ok! And so what if it’s true? You may not be the hottest guy WE’VE dated, but we’re not about to SAY so.  Plus, this comment will likely make us cry– and you don’t want to see that, do you?

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2.  “You look like my ex.” 

No one wants to be compared to an ex — unless the ex is a model.  But even then, why are you bringing her up?  It makes us think that you’re thinking about her– and then we think you’d rather be with her and before you know it, we’re convinced you two are getting back together.

3. “You’d look better if [insert physical characteristic here].”

Guys? We don’t need to be told we should improve how we look.  Can’t you just love us for how we already are?  Improvement comments just make us feel very self conscious around and not comfortable with how we look.  If you don’t like it…go somewhere else.

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4. “That waitress/chick is hot!”

We get it — other chicks are hot. We also have eyeballs to see for ourselves.  But please don’t tell us when you’re looking at other women…in fact, could you just not look at all?  And while you’re at it, could you tell us that we’re hot more often, please? Thank you.

5. “Relax– you’re overreacting.”

You may be trying to calm us down but you just made us even angrier.  Let us get mad and figure things out.  Stop treating us like we’re crazy.

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6.”Your sister is weird.”

Hey, we’re tight with our family — family is off-limits. Let it go or move on.

7. “There’s no way those jeans are gonna fit you.”

We don’t need fashion advice from you.  Especially with your judgmental tone about our size.  We know what fits and what doesn’t, thank you very much.  Now leave us alone.

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8. “Is it ‘that time of the month’? Because you’re being mean.”

Guys, don’t assume we’re crabby because we’re on our periods.  This is a tricky one because if it is that time of the month, we’ll probably clobber you.  And if it isn’t, well, we’ll probably clobber you.  You’re not allowed to make comments about our menstrual cycle…at least anything other than, “Do you want chocolate and flowers, babe?”

9. “You look really different in the mornings.”

Okay, so we don’t wake up freshly showered with a full face of makeup. Sue us.  It’s not fair that guys wake up looking almost exactly the same as when they fell asleep.

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10. “It’s a guy thing. You wouldn’t understand.”

This one is just unfair.  Give us a chance– we probably would understand and we could probably help– if you let us.

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TYPES OF SEX YOU SHOULD TRY AT THE AGE BETWEEN 20 AND 30

Since people between the ages of 20 and 30 are mostly busy exploring their options, it does involve a decent amount of SEx that tends to be anything but uniform, and so experts have given 8 types of SEx that you probably have had or will have during your prime years.

1.Creatively-located SEx -the stacks, an airplane bathroom, a hostel hallway, your parents’ bed, a bar, the park, an alley, your car – the possibilities are endless and while it’s fun to hope that you will still be this adventurous in your 30s, a carpe diem approach is probably advisable here. Also, these are not moments to hold back.

Read Also: How Men Really Feel About Sex

2.Drunk SEx – often combined with bad SEx and/or one-night-stand, this type of 53xual experience is usually less than amazing. Great SEx usually requires some amount of athleticism, and a bunch of uncoordinated flailing limbs, plus an alcohol-sedated nervous system, does not a mind-blowing orga’sm make.

3.Friend SEx- at some point during your 20s you’ll likely reach a point with a previously platonic friend in which you both agree that it’s a great idea to sleep together. If the 53x is great you’ll either become gray area “friends with benefits” or just laugh about it a lot for years to come. If the 53x is bad you’ll probably never ever speak of it again.

Read Also: 11 Sex Moves That Seem Like a Better Idea

4.SEx for one – sex by yourself is a great way to learn what it is you want from a SExual experience with a partner. It’s healthy, it relieves stress and women deserve orga’sms in or out of relationships. By the time you leave your 20s you’ll hopefully know exactly how to make yourself feel good without the assistance from another person.

5.Nonexistent SEx – there are times when you’re just not having 53x at all. It might be frustrating but it’s also a great time to reflect on what you actually want from your se’xual experiences when they inevitably begin again. Plus, just when you’ve become totally convinced that you will never have another non-self-bestowed orga’sm in your life, you’ll be proven wrong.

6.Make-up SEx – if you find yourself in a relationship during
your 20-something years, the odds are pretty good that you’ll get into some fights, you’ll get extremely frustrated at your significant other for being inattentive or letting work consume him or her, scream at each other, perhaps shed a few tears and then channel all of that anger into some really excellent sexual play.

7.Vindication SEx – At some point during your 20s you’ll probably find yourself in the position to sleep with someone who previously rejected you or considered you below their notice. It probably won’t be all that great, and you may not feel great morally afterwards. You will, however, leave with the satisfaction that you didn’t peak in your teen years.

8.Home-for-the-holidays SEx – during your 20s you’re likely travelling back to your hometown for the November and December holidays each year. During these awkward few weeks you’ll probably run into any number of people from earlier in your life, including one or more ghosts of friends-with-benefits past. You may find it uniquely satisfying to have a short, no-strings-attached fling with said them each time you return.

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Can Guys & Girls be Best Friends? We find out!

Are guys the new best friends for girls and vice versa?

Welcome to the biggest relationship cliché in the history of men and women. Despite what you may have learned or heard growing up, men and women can absolutely be anywhere from good to best friends. Sure, everyone has heard someone say “you can’t be just friends with a member of the opposite sex” and a platonic relationship between a man and woman may not happen all the time but it is possible. After all, the single biggest reason that friendships between men and women fail is sexual tension.

I can vouch for the statement that men and women can be just friends as two of my best friends are of the opposite sex and I’m not the only one with best friends of the opposite sex. Today, we speak to three sets of best friends who are of the opposite sex.

Syafiq and Syaza

Syaza Pauzi and Syafiq Ramlan – Best friends since high school.*Syaza answers on behalf of the duo.

How did you two meet?
We met in high school, when we were in Form 1.

How long have you been friends?
Eleven years now.

Were there any romantic feelings or flirtation between the two of you throughout the friendship?
We never really flirted but we did have feelings for each other. It’s just never worked because it never happened at the same time so it wasn’t meant to be we guess.

Was it a case of the dreaded friend-zone situation?
Not really. I actually liked him when we first met but he didn’t feel the same way. Then after some time he liked me but I didn’t so in the end we just became really good friends and we still are the best of friends today.

What is the best thing about having a best friend of the opposite sex?
You can get the opinion of the opposite sex because we don’t really think the same way. So it’s nice to have views from the other side. It’s pretty good when it comes to dating because then we can ask each other’s opinion about the people we are seeing and the situation. Also it’s nice when sharing the same interest.

Do people often tell you that you should date? If yes, how do you react/respond to it?
Plenty of times. We just laugh it off because it’s nothing new to us. I mean dating your best friend will be the best thing ever but for us, we’re not meant to be. We are just meant to be best friends especially since we have been friends for so long, we kind of look alike too and it also doesn’t really help when our names are almost the same.

Despite the social believe that guys and girls can’t be just friends, you two have managed to be just that. How did you manage that?
Each person is different in their own way so maybe our personalities match really well together. There were ups and downs but we can always count on each other. Also because we are comfortable with each other so we never really tried to do anything to ruin that. It’s not impossible; it’s only impossible because you made it that way. Sure one of us did have feelings for each other but time helped us to overpass it and we realised that we are only meant to be best friends instead.

Andrew and Jazelia

Andrew Tan and Jazelia Jasmene – Best friends since high school

How did you meet?
Andrew: We met through one of our mutual friends who we used to be close with. It’s funny because we actually got closer after some disagreements with the mutual friend of ours.
Jazelia: He was dating my junior in school, whom at the time I was close to, and eventually we remained friends but we chucked her out of the list. So, yes, it was Myspace and MSN.

How long have you been friends?
Andrew: About 8 years now I think.
Jazelia: Since 2007. About 7 or 8 years.

Were there any romantic feelings or flirtation between the two of you throughout the friendship?
Andrew: Hahaha… I was into her. She was never into me.
Jazelia: I think he was into me for awhile, but thank God we went passed that. He’s the kind of friend you’d want at your bachelorette party haha!

Was it a case of the dreaded friend-zone situation?
Andrew: Perhaps.
Jazelia: Not sure what kind of zone it was.

What is the best thing about having a best friend of the opposite sex?
Andrew: I guess the things that we can talk about are much deeper and broader. I don’t really share my stuff and feelings with my guy friends. To me, having someone as a best friend of the opposite sex can really open up your mind and change your perspective on matters and opinions comparing to having friends from the same sex especially men, because let’s face it, most of us are quite shallow. Having the company of someone from the opposite sex is much more fun and overall, you get to learn how others think and be more thoughtful with things and life in general.
Jazelia: He helps me out a lot in showing me different pieces of the bigger picture, since he’s also much older than me, and when I have relationship problems, I can always depend on him to give me, like, an explanation on what the other person is thinking. Also, I take his opinions of the guys I go out with rather seriously. He’s been right all this while. I never get to prove him wrong. He also knows my every flaw and bad experiences, which is good because he understands me more but he can always blackmail me. Haha…sigh!

Do people often tell you that you should date? If yes, how do you react/ respond to it? 
Andrew: Not often. I just laughed it off as I don’t think we’ll ever get to that stage at all. Plus, I’m really happy with our friendship.
Jazelia: Not really. I mean, friends who know that we’ve been friends for almost a decade surround us and all of us have best friends of the opposite sex as well. So I think they can all relate. Usually when someone asks me why I’m not dating Droo, I just brush it off. Pretty much what Droo does in response.

Despite the social believe that guys and girls can’t be just friends, you two have managed to be just that. How did you manage that?
Andrew: I guess it’s just having the same mutual understanding with each other. We did have arguments, long periods of cold shoulders and all but somehow, we got through it. Learn to accept one another, regardless of how they are if you really love them as a person, as a friend or spouse.
Jazelia: Well, when you stop looking at each other as ‘the opposite sex’ and start looking at them as a soul and person who was meant to be your best friend, that’s when you can differentiate. It’s actually very simple.

Sofia Michael, Juliana Evans and Sher Mohamed

Sofia Michael, Juliana Evans and Sher Mohamed – Best friends since college

Now this lucky guy, Sher, has not only one, but two best friends who are girls! Here’s what they have to say about their friendship.

How did the three of you meet?
Sher: We were university mates who at the time were studying at Sunway University College and granted we all had different groups of friends but when you’re in college, every somehow knows everyone, and our group of friends ended up being one giant group of friends. Anyway, long story short, we clicked really well and instantly became close and we’re now best friends.
Sofia: It was the same case for me, I met them in college.
Juliana:  Well, I first met Sher at the side gate of Sunway College a couple of years back. He asked me “Hey are you the girl from KAMI?” I was like ‘Yeah’. And we clicked straight away after that.

How long have you been friends?
Sher: Close to a good 5 years now!
Sofia: About 4 to 5 years now.
Juliana: I think about 5 years now.

Were there any romantic feelings or flirtation between the two of you throughout the friendship?
Sher: Haha. No, never, not once. We in fact share stories and be each other’s wing person at times! I think that’s the beauty of having a best friend who is of the opposite sex.
Sofia:  Nope, no romantic feelings or any flirtations that I know of. I’m pretty much a guy kind of girl so I’ve always felt more comfortable hanging out with guys.
Juliana: Not at all. Because when I’m around my guy friends, I am like a dude. And they treat like a dude too!

Was it a case of the dreaded friend-zone situation?
Sher: Definitely not, it was a choice made by us. We make better friends as compared to anything else.
Sofia: It really wasn’t actually. In fact, one of them introduced me to their cousin, who ended up becoming my long term boyfriend. So it was a done deal that we’re just best friends.
Juliana: Never. We are best friends and will always be. I appreciate our friendship way too much to ruin it.

What is the best thing about having a best friend of the opposite sex?
Sher: I think the best thing about having best friends of the opposite sex is you get insights on things that you might not know and they are more than willing to share with you! Also I feel, girls make the best ‘wing-man’!
Sofia: Honestly, guys love having girl best friends and vice versa. We girls get to know all these dirty tricks that guys use and guys get the ultimate sort of “pick up line”, as official wingwomen!
Juliana: To me the best thing about having a best friend of the opposite sex is that they are not judgmental. I can really be myself around guys because they don’t care what you do and most importantly they don’t talk behind your back! They are also very trustworthy. Guys are easier to make friends with too, compared to girls. I’m saying this because I have had bad experiences with some girl friends in the past (backstabbing, two-faced etc). I hate dramas!

Do people often tell either of you that you should date? If yes, how do you react/respond to it?
Sher: Well in our case, people know that we are good friends and so far, we’ve never had people asking us to date. Some people are better off friends. I wouldn’t want to change a thing.
Sofia:  Well, I’ve gotten that a couple of times but to me, I value them so much more as best friends and I can’t see myself being with any of them.
Juliana:  Nobody ever told me that. I think this is because they know how our friendship is nothing but full on ‘bromance’. Haha!

Despite the social believe that guys and girls can’t be just friends, you two have managed to be just that. How did you manage that?
Sher: I completely disagree with the doctrine and I feel like it’s very outdated. I see a lot of people today with best friends of the opposite sex and it’s perfectly fine. I think how the three of us managed to maintain this was by ensuring ourselves and each other that there is no physical or emotional attraction involved, although my best friends are really hot but these girls are my bros and I wouldn’t change a thing.
Sofia:  To be honest, I really can’t give you a straight answer because I’m not sure myself but if I had to say, I would say it’s the respect we show each other. I am lucky to have guy friends that respect me enough to not take advantage of the friendship. We respect, love and value our friendship so much that we would never want to mess with it.
Juliana:  I disagree with that term. A guy and a girl can be just friends. Friendships to me, are stronger than anything else and I think we’ve been able to stay best friends because we keep it real with each other. We are very open with each other, we’re a crazy bunch and I am also blessed to have guy friends who are such great listeners.

Apart from these sets of best friends, we also spoke to a few people who disagree with the fact that guys and girls can be in a platonic relationship. Here’s what they had to say:

Amir: I don’t think a guy and a girl can just be friends without being physically attracted to each other prior the friendship. If they’re friends prior the friendship, it would be because the girl has friendzoned the guy.

Joanne: I don’t think it’s possible. Especially if they’ve had history together. I wouldn’t like my boyfriend being friends with girls or going out with other girls without me.

Nick: A guy and a girl cannot be nothing but friends because guys tend to overthink and when girls use them as a shoulder to cry on, they tend to misunderstand the situation and magically believe that the girl has feelings for him.

Allyah: Maybe it’s just me but I’ve never really been close friends with a guy. I always end up having feelings for the guy and it causes things to get awkward when he doesn’t feel the same way.

Andy: I as a guy say it’s not possible because I wouldn’t like my girlfriend hanging out with or talking to other guys. I don’t like it because when I was single, I would hit on a lot of girls.

What do you think — can guys and girls be just friends? Sound off in the comments!

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How To Deal With That One Friend That Won’t Get Off Their Phone

At this day and age, smartphones are everything and when I say everything, I mean our daily lives revolve around it. There is Whatsapp, Facebook, email and all sorts of other notifications taking up our attention span. Sure, time has evolved to where we can’t help but to prefer conversations over Whatsapp as opposed to sitting down and actually talking to one another.

But you can’t help wonder, was there ever a time where a bunch of people sat down for dinner and when it was ready, they just eat instead of uploading a photo on Instagram before taking a bite out of their meal? We’ve become constantly connected through technology and perhaps that’s okay most of the time but sometimes, one needs to know where to draw the line. When to start putting your phones down while dining and catching up with a few close friends.

But what if you had that one friend, that one individual that’s frustratingly attached to their mobile phone as if their life depended on it? That one individual who would suggest catching up, but what they really meant is every one else should converse with each other while he/she is stapled to their phone screen.  How do you deal with the likes of them? Here are a few suggestions:

Solution #1: Keep your mouth shut and never invite them back

Depending on how close you are to this particular person, you could choose the path that requires least effort. Try and ignore their extremely rude behaviour and make a mental note to never invite them again. It’s definitely not easy to bite your tongue when someone is displaying such bad manners but save everyone else the awkwardness and keep it to yourself.

Solution #2: Allow for a break

Much like smokers that go for their smoke breaks, you may want to allow a period of time where the phone enthusiasts and everyone else could also check their phones. After checking how many likes their dinner picture got on Instagram, everybody can go back to enjoying dinner along with some conversations.

Solution #3: Say something but with a sense of humour

Constantly being on your phone whilst out for dinner with friends is just plain rude. Some people get this but most don’t. It gives others the impression that you have somewhere better to be or something more entertaining to attend to. So, if you feel like you need to fight fire with fire, then do it in a humorous way. Send them a text message in a joking manner or a picture of them staring at their phone. A good friend will laugh it off and put away their phone.

Solution #4: Confront them head on

There are times when people just need to confronted. Despite the fact it’s almost as rude as someone being on their mobile phones and ignoring their company, you have got to do it. Ask them why? Was there an emergency and that’s the reason they were texting away? Or you could easily tell them that even though you’re glad that they were able to join you for this occasion, it would be much appreciated if they could put away their phones considering they said that they didn’t have anywhere else to be.

Solution #5: Play “that” game

This particular game has gotten quite famous. Gather everybody’s mobile phones and place them on top of each other in the middle of the dining table. The first one to pick up their phone during dinner is the one that will be paying the entire bill. This plan is pretty much fool proof ‘cos ain’t nobody is going to want to pay for every single person. So, if all else fails, try this method!

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The #Difference Between The Man You Date and The Man You Marry

#Dating can be fun and when you’re in the dating pool, you should always keep in mind that the guys you hook up with will never be anything more than just that.

Of course, not all hook-ups are bad. The memories of some will make you cringe but I’m sure most were fun and there was few that taught you a thing or two. When you’re dating someone and you’re in love, it’s often easy to confuse yourself by thinking the man you’re with is perfect but there’s actually a vast difference between the guy you date and the man you marry.

Difference #1
The guy you date: He worries over what you have to offer him and adores you only if you give him your full attention. It also helps that you’re attractive and share a few common interests with him.
The man you marry: This man will love you for who you are. Your every wonder and flaw. He thinks about you before himself and spends his time building a better life for the both of you as a couple. He will understand you better than anybody else and hopes that he will always be a good husband to you.

Difference #2:The guy you date: Gets jealous and possessive. This can be cute in the beginning of a relationship but after a while it will be exhausting and time-consuming. You don’t want to spend the rest of your life with someone who is quick to mistrust you.
The man you marry: He trusts you and the decisions you make. He is patient and will always keep an open mind when the both of you are talking about something important. This man will consider your feelings and thoughts before irrationally reacting.

Difference #3:The guy you date: He will always think that he can do better. Some guys are just boys on the inside. Yes, all men will look but if your man is following half-naked girls on Instagram, you can bet your a** that he is definitely not marriage material. This guy has to feed his boyish needs, which comes before respecting your feelings.
The man you marry: He only has eyes for you and yes, he may look if a pretty lady walks past but you know that no one could ever be more beautiful to him than you. He makes you feel good without complimenting you 24/7 but by respecting you for the woman that you are. No half-naked blonde in a thong could compete with you because to him, you are indeed perfect.

Difference #4:
The guy you date: He shows you how much he can spend. Look at his fancy this and fancy that.
The man you marry: He has a financial plan that he ruthlessly follows in order to save for both your future. He will spoil you when he wants but he also knows how to manage money, so that you can both lead a comfortable life for as long as you’re together.

Difference #5:The guy you #date: He is emotionally unavailable and hates having any kind of “talks”. If it has got to do with talking about how the relationship could flourish or anything that is emotion-related, he will shy away.
The man you #marry: He will always want to be better and do things that could benefit the relationship he has with you. He will listen to your struggles and worries, and never fails to fix it or try his best at least. This is the man that doesn’t love you selfishly but instead loves you selflessly and with kindness.

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11 Sex Moves That Seem Like a Better Idea

Maybe you remembered it from a chick flick, saw it in a porn clip, or heard about
it from one of your more adventurous friends. It was an enticing sex tip or mysterious position that sounded insanely hot, so you obviously tried it…and it bombed. If you've ever tried one of these seemed-like-a-good-idea-at-the-time sex moves, then you know exactly what we're talking about. If you haven't, well, don't say we didn't warn you:

Sex on the Dryer
The goal is to go all Varsity Blues and sexily hop up on the dryer so you can get the extra vibrations while your partner is thrusting. In reality, your butt is totally numb and sweating and your guy is on his tip-toes trying to enter you at the right angle, because this dryer is definitely not the right height. Fail.

Whipped Cream All Over Your Body
Speaking of ill-advised sex tips from Varsity Blues, every woman everywhere has considered the whipped cream bikini (or the whipped cream one piece a la The Mindy Project). But what starts sexy quickly becomes so sticky and messy. Plus, you get that stuff too close to your privates and you may as well call up your gyno now to warn her of your impending yeast infection.

Sex on the Beach

You know how you always seem to get sand everywhere when you're at the beach? Yeah, that's without having sex on a towel. Unless you have a secluded cabana on a deserted beach that's raised at least a foot off the sand, this will never be injury-free—or legal, for that matter.

Hooking Up in the Bar Bathroom
Because sneaking away from the crowd to get it on is so hot, right? Wrong. That bathroom is terrifying and cramped for one person—let alone two. Plus, you don't want to touch anything, so you would need to have the balance of a Cirque du Soleil performer to pull this off. Call a cab and head home to your bed.

69
Consider this the overachiever of sex positions. We get it: Why wait turns when you can both give oral at the same time? We'll tell you why. First, if you're not the same height, you're already fighting an uphill battle. Second, these angles will be flattering for no one. And third, you're usually too preoccupied to even appreciate how good anything feels. Just settle down and take turns.

Shower Sex
This is a tricky one, because we want it to work so badly. It always starts out hot, but when you get into the actual logistics, it can get awkward fast. First, all of that water is going to wash away any natural wetness, like, instantly. Then you'll notice that whoever isn't under the shower will befreezing. And finally, you realize that you really need to clean your shower walls because holy slippery tiles. Ugh, just hand us a towel.

Sex in a Pool or Hot Tub
We know it's tempting, but your gyno will tell you otherwise. Three words: Urinary Tract Infections. Getting it on in the water makes you way more susceptible to UTIs and STDs. Not to mention a condom can't withstand the chlorine from pool water. 

Hand Jobs
In theory it seems pretty simple, straightforward, and effective. In reality, you probably can't beat a man's own technique. Seriously, they're just awkward.

Surfboarding 
Endorsed by Beyoncé, frowned upon by your gynecologist. This move, where you get into reverse cowgirl position in the tub, just isn't a good idea. Again, your risk of UTIs goes way up when you're having sex in the bath. Not to mention your natural lubrication disappears and your bathroom becomes a flood zone.

Him Holding You While Standing 
There's no question it's hot for your partner to scoop you up while you're having sex. The problem here is that they're slightly afraid of dropping you and you're seriously afraid of falling. Also, this one is really all on him—aside from wrapping your legs around him and holding on tight, there's not much can you contribute here.

Sex at Your Parents' House 

It seems hot in a taboo way, but really, it's just weird and risky. You'll end up being awkwardly silent and wishing like hell you had taken down that ridiculous Titanic poster in your old bedroom decades ago.

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11 Must-Know Oral Sex Tips from Real Women

Many women have their go-to oral sex moves that they know will work every. Single. Time. But why keep all of that great intel to themselves? We asked around to get real women's best tips for amazing oral. The goal: To make it great for you and pretty damn mind-blowing for him.  

"Just because it's oral sex doesn't mean you only use your mouth. Use your hands to hold at the base. And ball play is always fair play." —Carly H. 

"Any time my jaw or neck needs a break, I pull back and just focus on the tip. If you have plenty of lube or saliva, you can keep pumping with your hands while you circle, lick, and suck on the tip. Best of both worlds—for both of you!" —Anne G. 

"There's this little spot where the shaft meets the balls that is super sensitive. My ex once told me it was like I hit his g-spot. Nailed it!" —Sara K. 

"I sometimes add flavored lube when I'm giving oral sex. I think the lube makes it feel better for him, and it gives me something to enjoy, too." —Isabel J.

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How Men Really Feel About Sex 

"If I'm starting to get tired, or need a break to swallow my saliva (gross, but it happens), I slow down the speed. Once I've had a little break, I speed it up again. I think the change in tempo really feels good for him."  —Natalie H. 

"Ask what he likes. You'll feel way more confident if you know the rhythm, speed, and little quirks that he prefers." —Melissa S. 

"My go-to move is sucking on the tip while also using my hand on the shaft. I'll slowly bring my hand up and over the head, then put the tip in my mouth again as I bring my hand back down. It's almost like that hand-over-hand massage technique, but it's hand over mouth!" –Sarah H. 

"I always think about how much he's enjoying it—and how amazing he is at reciprocating—and it makes me really enjoy being on the giving end." —Lindsay P. 

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"When he's about to climax, I gently pull on his balls to make him last a little bit longer. My boyfriend always says it makes it even more intense." —Elizabeth O. 

"When you're focusing on the tip, don't forget the underside of the head—it's a really sensitive spot." —Malia G. 

"I make moaning noises while going down on him. It turns him on even more and lets him know I enjoy making him feel this good." —Margrite W.

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How Men Really Feel About Sex

Cliches are irritating. Some of them obviously need to be dispelled. We could hardly ever stop people from believing in some certain myths and the reason why people are so unwilling to give up on cliches is that cliches state without giving an explanation.

They are easy to understand and simple to believe in, despite the fact that some myths are really misleading. If you consider yourself to be an open-minded person and brave enough to change your opinion, we welcome you to talk on a very subtle topic – how men really feel about sex. You are free to disagree, but before you make your final mind up, take some time to ponder upon what men tell us about themselves. What do we, ladies, know about our men? Are there any secrets we should know about?

1. Men are not Obsessed with Sex 24/7
This is myth number one. And it cannot be any further from the truth. Sometimes it is the lady who provokes the man to behave in this manner either trying to support or dispel the myth. What happens if she hears “yes” as an answer? Then her reaction is kind of “I knew so, all men are sex addicts”. And what happens if she hears “no” as an answer? Then she will start questioning if he is alright or if she is alright. The thing is that both are alright. It’s just that the man might not be up for sex at the time. This is natural for ladies, then why is it considered to be unnatural for a man?

2. Does Sex Equal to Validation?
Men are frequently self-tormented. There are too many things men are trying to achieve and even excel in. It is in their genes to compete and prove that they are better than others. Being strong is exhausting. Men are no gods and failures in their lives are inevitable. Keeping disappointment inside without showing the weaker side of the character is self-destructive. Bursting into tears is not an option, is it? What is an option then? Well, probably an understanding woman who can comfort him. And there is no better relief than those special intimate moments that a man can spend with such a woman.

3. Dominant Gender
This cliches is not really a myth. There is a grain of truth in it. Is it a negative phenomenon? Hardly. It’s a win-win situation. Ladies are always looking for someone stronger than they are and there is no need to freak out once you find such a partner. Consider yourself a lucky one if you have finally met a lover who can sweep you off your feet and make you lose your mind.

4. Care or Indifference
Men are supposed to know how to perform in the bedroom. This is how they prove they are men enough. Is it fair? I doubt. The problem is that women are different. Even the same woman can be and most often is different throughout the week or even the day. How is the man supposed to read her mind? Being too fast is as bad as being too slow. Being gentle is not spicy enough while being rough can be interpreted as being selfish and careless. As you can see, bringing a woman to an orgasm requires patience and skills.

5. What are Women Aware of Men Aren’t?
Men can seldom watch themselves during intercourse. They are the active part of the process, while ladies can observe. Next time pay more attention to what is really going and you will finally understand that…

6. Men Are Not All the Same
This is neither a myth nor a secret. That’s plain true and natural. There is no skeleton key to every lock in a man’s head or heart. We men are all different, each being unique in his own way. To find out what a man thinks about sex and how he really feels about it, you have to let him make love to you. And the more often, the better!

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6 Reasons Why To Travel With Your Loved One

Travelling can show a person in his extremes – from the best character parts to the worst problems. That’s why it can be really important for every couple to travel together: both of them can learn the most important information about each other.

So look at 6 reasons to take your loved one to the road with you:

1. You get out from your zone of comfort: if the place you travel to is unknown for the couple, things get extreme and intensive. Surely, when he shows you around his fatherland, you get to learn important information about him, but only moving into unknown conditions will open the real him to you. Whether you miss your last train, get declined in a souvenir shop or an annoying language barrier – all this are chances to challenge your love bonds and check each other out in extreme circumstances.

2. It’s a chance to learn compromising. During trip planning you may find out that your interests in visiting some significant places really differ. So you will have to decide together, how to make it to every museum he wants to see and to all your little bookstores in a few days. Compromising means to discover a way to please both – perhaps, by just changing books and history to romantic boat trip or planning a route which includes as many museums as shops.

3. Receiving new memories instead of painful old ones: Tahiti can be a bad place to you because of quarrels you had with your ex there. Visiting the beautiful place together with your new love will replace old negative emotions with new happiness.

4. Experience of financial cooperation. If you both take things about relationship serious, traveling together can be a fine test for your financial cooperation skills, which are truly important for couples living in one room. It can be really difficult to plan a monthly budget, so try doing it for your trip and see your future mistakes and knowledge lacks.

5. Travel takes you out of your couple routine. At home you already managed to create some routines and couple traditions – for example, takeaways on Wednesdays or clubs every Friday night. Adding everyday working or studying it can be really complex to leave this routine behind. Travel can help you to include some freshness in your relationship, to see a new life behind everyday bars.

6. Having fun together! The most cool thing about couple travel is the great fun you can have. Experience of discovering other cities and countries together is an astonishing experience you will always remember, and it will give you wonderful bonds which no other activity can give.

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Things I've Learned Since Turning 30: Money

When I got my first real job, I was floored at the amount of money that was on the paycheck. It was more than I'd ever seen (interning and working at a summer camp in college weren't the most lucrative careers) and I spent it like I was a rock star. However, when my first round of bills poured in, I realized the shopping sprees at Forever 21 and Urban Outfitters were not warranted. Oh and that huge income I thought I'd been making? It was hardly enough to get by. I soon learned the importance of saving, but I was still unclear on how to manage my finances. Now that I’m a homeowner and run a small business, it’s imperative to have intimate knowledge of what’s happening. Here are the financial lessons I’ve learned over the past few years.

 

Credit: I had an amazing high school teacher who warned our entire class not to get a credit card in college. Yes, it's thrilling to finally be independent and have access to easy credit, but far too often students fall victim to high interest rates and revolving debt. Had he not terrified me, I would have had a wallet filled with unnecessary cards. He instilled the fear of a low credit score and I made it a point to avoid any retail or promotional credit cards until after I graduated and had a job. Though one of the best ways to build credit is to spend, I make sure to pay off the balance each month. I also manage my score by limiting myself to two cards (one personal, one business), both of which offer great incentives, like points and cash back. Our upcoming trip to Hawaii will be paid fully in points.

 

Saving/Investing: I didn't put a lot of thought into my retirement when I started my first corporate job, but was smartly advised to take advantage of the company's 401(k) plan. I always put in the maximum allowance and it provided a nice investment without feeling like I was missing out on anything. Now that I work for myself, squirreling away money for retirement is a little different, but even more important. I put about 10% of my income towards my savings account and into an IRA, so it can grow at a more progressive rate. 

 

I've also become more thoughtful about my purchases. After we bought our house, I cut back on my clothing purchases and lost that compulsion to shop aimlessly. I found more satisfaction in buying something we used around the house versus adding another pair of jeans to my collection. It's not to say I don't spend, but try to treat myself when it's deserved, rather then spending on spur-of-the-moment items. It might seem simple, but even cutting out small things like going out for coffee and getting mani/pedis adds up over the course of a year.  

 

Budgeting: When I first became pregnant, we stopped going out to eat, mainly because I felt lousy and was averse to making plans. I knew we ate out a lot, but it surprised me how much money we saved. Also, since I had specific cravings and a bunch of restrictions, it was easier to whip up something at home. We've since made a new rule: we only eat out for special occasions or when it's been planned in advance. We'd often order take-out whenever we were too lazy to cook. Now, we use Sundays to meal plan and stock up on groceries. This was a big change for us, but not only do we save a lot, it also makes going out to eat that much more special.

I’m also a big believer in using software to help manage my personal budget and love Mint. It’s been around for a while, but breaks down your spending habits in such a simple and clear way, that you don’t need an accounting degree to see where you stand financially.

Here are the loose percentages that I follow:

Housing: 20-30%



Food/Dining: 15-20%



Health Care (I include gym memberships and insurance): 10-15%



Personal care (clothing, grooming, etc.): 5-10%



Transportation: 7-10%



Loans (does not include car/home): 10-15%



Savings: 10%



Entertainment: 3-5%

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