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Showing posts with label Hot topic. Show all posts
TYPES OF SEX YOU SHOULD TRY AT THE AGE BETWEEN 20 AND 30
Since people between the ages of 20 and 30 are mostly busy exploring their options, it does involve a decent amount of SEx that tends to be anything but uniform, and so experts have given 8 types of SEx that you probably have had or will have during your prime years.
1.Creatively-located SEx -the stacks, an airplane bathroom, a hostel hallway, your parents’ bed, a bar, the park, an alley, your car – the possibilities are endless and while it’s fun to hope that you will still be this adventurous in your 30s, a carpe diem approach is probably advisable here. Also, these are not moments to hold back.
Read Also: How Men Really Feel About Sex
2.Drunk SEx – often combined with bad SEx and/or one-night-stand, this type of 53xual experience is usually less than amazing. Great SEx usually requires some amount of athleticism, and a bunch of uncoordinated flailing limbs, plus an alcohol-sedated nervous system, does not a mind-blowing orga’sm make.
3.Friend SEx- at some point during your 20s you’ll likely reach a point with a previously platonic friend in which you both agree that it’s a great idea to sleep together. If the 53x is great you’ll either become gray area “friends with benefits” or just laugh about it a lot for years to come. If the 53x is bad you’ll probably never ever speak of it again.
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4.SEx for one – sex by yourself is a great way to learn what it is you want from a SExual experience with a partner. It’s healthy, it relieves stress and women deserve orga’sms in or out of relationships. By the time you leave your 20s you’ll hopefully know exactly how to make yourself feel good without the assistance from another person.
5.Nonexistent SEx – there are times when you’re just not having 53x at all. It might be frustrating but it’s also a great time to reflect on what you actually want from your se’xual experiences when they inevitably begin again. Plus, just when you’ve become totally convinced that you will never have another non-self-bestowed orga’sm in your life, you’ll be proven wrong.
6.Make-up SEx – if you find yourself in a relationship during
your 20-something years, the odds are pretty good that you’ll get into some fights, you’ll get extremely frustrated at your significant other for being inattentive or letting work consume him or her, scream at each other, perhaps shed a few tears and then channel all of that anger into some really excellent sexual play.
your 20-something years, the odds are pretty good that you’ll get into some fights, you’ll get extremely frustrated at your significant other for being inattentive or letting work consume him or her, scream at each other, perhaps shed a few tears and then channel all of that anger into some really excellent sexual play.
7.Vindication SEx – At some point during your 20s you’ll probably find yourself in the position to sleep with someone who previously rejected you or considered you below their notice. It probably won’t be all that great, and you may not feel great morally afterwards. You will, however, leave with the satisfaction that you didn’t peak in your teen years.
8.Home-for-the-holidays SEx – during your 20s you’re likely travelling back to your hometown for the November and December holidays each year. During these awkward few weeks you’ll probably run into any number of people from earlier in your life, including one or more ghosts of friends-with-benefits past. You may find it uniquely satisfying to have a short, no-strings-attached fling with said them each time you return.
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But you can’t help wonder, was there ever a time where a bunch of people sat down for dinner and when it was ready, they just eat instead of uploading a photo on Instagram before taking a bite out of their meal? We’ve become constantly connected through technology and perhaps that’s okay most of the time but sometimes, one needs to know where to draw the line. When to start putting your phones down while dining and catching up with a few close friends.
But what if you had that one friend, that one individual that’s frustratingly attached to their mobile phone as if their life depended on it? That one individual who would suggest catching up, but what they really meant is every one else should converse with each other while he/she is stapled to their phone screen. How do you deal with the likes of them? Here are a few suggestions:
Solution #1: Keep your mouth shut and never invite them back
Depending on how close you are to this particular person, you could choose the path that requires least effort. Try and ignore their extremely rude behaviour and make a mental note to never invite them again. It’s definitely not easy to bite your tongue when someone is displaying such bad manners but save everyone else the awkwardness and keep it to yourself.
Solution #2: Allow for a break
Much like smokers that go for their smoke breaks, you may want to allow a period of time where the phone enthusiasts and everyone else could also check their phones. After checking how many likes their dinner picture got on Instagram, everybody can go back to enjoying dinner along with some conversations.
Solution #3: Say something but with a sense of humour
Constantly being on your phone whilst out for dinner with friends is just plain rude. Some people get this but most don’t. It gives others the impression that you have somewhere better to be or something more entertaining to attend to. So, if you feel like you need to fight fire with fire, then do it in a humorous way. Send them a text message in a joking manner or a picture of them staring at their phone. A good friend will laugh it off and put away their phone.
Solution #4: Confront them head on
There are times when people just need to confronted. Despite the fact it’s almost as rude as someone being on their mobile phones and ignoring their company, you have got to do it. Ask them why? Was there an emergency and that’s the reason they were texting away? Or you could easily tell them that even though you’re glad that they were able to join you for this occasion, it would be much appreciated if they could put away their phones considering they said that they didn’t have anywhere else to be.
Solution #5: Play “that” game
This particular game has gotten quite famous. Gather everybody’s mobile phones and place them on top of each other in the middle of the dining table. The first one to pick up their phone during dinner is the one that will be paying the entire bill. This plan is pretty much fool proof ‘cos ain’t nobody is going to want to pay for every single person. So, if all else fails, try this method!
Our Favourite Looks From The 2014 #EmmyAward #Red Carpet
We definitely had a hard time deciding on our favourite looks at the recent 2014 Emmy Awards. From dramatic ball gowns to simple yet glamorous pieces. Check out our shortlist!
Ball Gowns
Allison Williams in a off-white gown with a black bow and yellow belt.
Teyonah Parris in a bright yellow gown with a pink and white top.
Dascha Polanco in an off-white gown with a tulle overlay.
Allison Tolman in a Romona Keveza one-shoulder gown.
Cat Deeley in an ombre pink gown.
Shimmering Gowns
Hayden Panettiere in a gorgeous, embellished Lorena Sarbu gown with a plunging neckline and mesh overlay.
Taryn Manning in an all-gold gown.
Gwen Stefani in a unique silver dress with a revealing neckline.
Structured Gowns
Samira Wiley in a stunning yellow gown.
Keke Palmer in a form-fitting blue gown with plunging neckline.
Laura Prepon in a green Gustavo Cadile gown with architectural flourishes and a peplum detail.
Kate Walsh in a Stephane Rolland Haute Couture dress.
Camila Alves in a Zuhair Murad dress.
Simple yet Glamorous Gowns
Sarah Hyland pulls off the crop top in a Christian Siriano dress.
Taylor Schilling in a stunning gold Zuhair Murad gown with low-back.
Betsy Brandt in a colorful strapless gown.
Human Addiction to Pornography
The deepest looks into the intmacy of other human beings,
I believe, is a subject of common intrigue. We watch romantic films,
read romance novels, and try to imagine ourselves in the arms of the
attractive protagonist. Where, however, does this obsession jump to a
level of perversion and deviancy? It seems to be a fine line we true to
walk. We hide what our natural desires might be for the fear of being
cast out as a pedophile or sick individual. With pornographic films, one
might say we can simply view these images and graphic films and learn
feed and then hold back these feelings. I don't know if this can be
true, but it's a delicious debate to have.
Since the seventeen hundreds, writers have written about the pleasures of giving into your desires, no matter how over-the-top they might be. This is especially true with French writer The Marquis De Sade, who wrote some of the most violent and wild pornographic stories I personally have ever come across. His worked was both loved and shunned during his lifetime to the point where he was kept hidden away in prisons and insane asylums throughout France. Some even said his works had the power to ignite acts of rape and murder to those who read his work.
This is history, but it's a history which has been forgotten by many, until modern story tellers and filmakers have taken hold of it and simply told the facts as they were written. "We Eat. We Shit. We Fuck. We Kill. And We Die." The Marquis De Sade wasn't the first, and certainly not the last to find away to express himself through the ways of sex and physical appetites.The 1940s marked the most famous forms of porngraphy with the classic shots of pinups for the brave men who fought for our country. They could have their cataclysmic release and continue to fight without the pent up sexual frustration, though some might say this tension may have been just what a good fighter needs to survive (debatable though).
Soon after came the still-popular magazines like PlayBoy and Penthouse.
Both of them starting with the classier look of naked women, then
further down the line began to push the envelope with less clothes, more
exposure, and the higher pay of sexual gradification. As this
acceptance increased, so did the hunger for more, now porn is more over
the top with more extreme acts of sex then one can even dream of. Is
this a good change? Is a bad change? Many are still arguing these
questions.
Are porn stars just glorified prostitutes, or are they actual human beings who maybe once tried to be entertainers but become themselves victims of circumstance? I'd like to think they are victims. In interviews with several different pornstars, maybe eight out of ten confessed to being the victims of sexual molestation. Overshadowed by the judgments of many, this is a truth that's forgotten more so than not.
The porn industry is now a million dollar industry with millions of viewers and consuming who need the sight of a woman being destroyed sexually in order to "get off" himself. But it isn't just men as most might think; women are some of the main viewers of porn, for many different reasons. Always being told to be nice girls growing, porn might make them feel empowered to do things in the bedroom which might blow the minds of their lovers. Others might want to look like the women in the films and pictures, with their plastic breasts and well trimmed bodies. Some women might just want the escape, the feeling of an orgasm that knocks them to their feet and renders them speechless; something a man, or another woman, might not be able to provide for them. Whatever the reason is, women are watching porn too and are just as obsessed with it as the men who watch it.
The obsession will never end, not in my opinion. If anything, porngraphy will build up and on until the makers of it find the ultimate ways to defy the ways of sexual gravity. It will quite the thing to see as the years passed. Will it be beneficial, or will it crumble our clean cut suburbia of a nation? Only time will tell.
Since the seventeen hundreds, writers have written about the pleasures of giving into your desires, no matter how over-the-top they might be. This is especially true with French writer The Marquis De Sade, who wrote some of the most violent and wild pornographic stories I personally have ever come across. His worked was both loved and shunned during his lifetime to the point where he was kept hidden away in prisons and insane asylums throughout France. Some even said his works had the power to ignite acts of rape and murder to those who read his work.
This is history, but it's a history which has been forgotten by many, until modern story tellers and filmakers have taken hold of it and simply told the facts as they were written. "We Eat. We Shit. We Fuck. We Kill. And We Die." The Marquis De Sade wasn't the first, and certainly not the last to find away to express himself through the ways of sex and physical appetites.The 1940s marked the most famous forms of porngraphy with the classic shots of pinups for the brave men who fought for our country. They could have their cataclysmic release and continue to fight without the pent up sexual frustration, though some might say this tension may have been just what a good fighter needs to survive (debatable though).
Are porn stars just glorified prostitutes, or are they actual human beings who maybe once tried to be entertainers but become themselves victims of circumstance? I'd like to think they are victims. In interviews with several different pornstars, maybe eight out of ten confessed to being the victims of sexual molestation. Overshadowed by the judgments of many, this is a truth that's forgotten more so than not.
The porn industry is now a million dollar industry with millions of viewers and consuming who need the sight of a woman being destroyed sexually in order to "get off" himself. But it isn't just men as most might think; women are some of the main viewers of porn, for many different reasons. Always being told to be nice girls growing, porn might make them feel empowered to do things in the bedroom which might blow the minds of their lovers. Others might want to look like the women in the films and pictures, with their plastic breasts and well trimmed bodies. Some women might just want the escape, the feeling of an orgasm that knocks them to their feet and renders them speechless; something a man, or another woman, might not be able to provide for them. Whatever the reason is, women are watching porn too and are just as obsessed with it as the men who watch it.
The obsession will never end, not in my opinion. If anything, porngraphy will build up and on until the makers of it find the ultimate ways to defy the ways of sexual gravity. It will quite the thing to see as the years passed. Will it be beneficial, or will it crumble our clean cut suburbia of a nation? Only time will tell.
9 Signs He's the Guy You Should Marry
Everyone and their moms have been asking you if you plan on tying the knot anytime soon. But even when the love, passion, and commitment are there, it can be hard to tell whether or not this is it. Our advice? Look out for these nine signs—backed by experts and research—that you're with someone who is marriage material:
He didn’t flip out when you divulged your credit card debt.
When you dropped a pretty substantial bomb, he didn't shy away, freeze up, or get angry—he was rational and helpful. "It shows a level of maturity, acceptance, and openness," says relationship expert Jenn Berman, Psy.D., host of VH1's Couples Therapy with Dr. Jenn. And all of these are crucial factors in a significant other. “A partner is husband material if he’s accepting of your struggles, such as your debt, and lets you know he’s around to help you through it."
When you dropped a pretty substantial bomb, he didn't shy away, freeze up, or get angry—he was rational and helpful. "It shows a level of maturity, acceptance, and openness," says relationship expert Jenn Berman, Psy.D., host of VH1's Couples Therapy with Dr. Jenn. And all of these are crucial factors in a significant other. “A partner is husband material if he’s accepting of your struggles, such as your debt, and lets you know he’s around to help you through it."
He encourages girls’ night.
You don't feel guilty taking a night (or a week-long beach vacation) away from your partner to focus on friends. And more importantly, he's supportive of this. In fact, experts say taking a little break from your spouse every now and then is totally healthy. “He wants you to have your independence. He realizes that in order to feel fulfilled you need an identity outside of 'girlfriend,'" says sex and relationship expert Logan Levkoff, Ph.D.
You don't feel guilty taking a night (or a week-long beach vacation) away from your partner to focus on friends. And more importantly, he's supportive of this. In fact, experts say taking a little break from your spouse every now and then is totally healthy. “He wants you to have your independence. He realizes that in order to feel fulfilled you need an identity outside of 'girlfriend,'" says sex and relationship expert Logan Levkoff, Ph.D.
He could pen your bio.
Your pillow talk is filled with Q&As, and you're still learning a ton about each other. He may already know what makes you happy, but he also continues to ask in-depth questions about you all the time—from your passions and dreams to your childhood. “This is a core factor that shows a depth of a relationship and a desire to understand you," says Berman.
Your pillow talk is filled with Q&As, and you're still learning a ton about each other. He may already know what makes you happy, but he also continues to ask in-depth questions about you all the time—from your passions and dreams to your childhood. “This is a core factor that shows a depth of a relationship and a desire to understand you," says Berman.
He accepts your social circle.
A lifelong relationship often means blending your friend groups, so it's imperative that he genuinely supports the friendships that are important to you. That includes getting along with your girlfriends and not feeling threatened or uncomfortable by your male friends, says Levkoff.
A lifelong relationship often means blending your friend groups, so it's imperative that he genuinely supports the friendships that are important to you. That includes getting along with your girlfriends and not feeling threatened or uncomfortable by your male friends, says Levkoff.
He talks through conflict.
You want to spend forever with someone who's not afraid to have the hard conversations. “It’s not that you don’t have conflict, it’s that he doesn’t run away when you do,” says Berman. “It shows he’s invested in you and in the relationship. It shows commitment and that he has a level of maturity that is important in a long-term relationship." So it's a good sign if your partner sticks around and works through a problem when it arises—instead of blowing it off, asking for space, or turning off his phone.
He's up for a good chick flick every now and then.
Sure, it shows he knows how to pick his battles (we cannot watch Die Hardevery single weekend), but a recent study also found that watching rom-coms together can actually strengthen your bond. (Seriously.) Couples who watched movies with romantic undertones and discussed them were less likely to get divorced than other couples. So if you and your partner already do this, it's a good sign for the future.
Sure, it shows he knows how to pick his battles (we cannot watch Die Hardevery single weekend), but a recent study also found that watching rom-coms together can actually strengthen your bond. (Seriously.) Couples who watched movies with romantic undertones and discussed them were less likely to get divorced than other couples. So if you and your partner already do this, it's a good sign for the future.
He feels strongly about fidelity.
This may seem like an obvious one, but it's worth reiterating. Recent research shows that people who have cheated once are 3.5 times more likely to cheat on a subsequent partner. This doesn't mean someone isn'tmarriage material if they've cheated in the past, but experts suggest having a serious discussion about your partner's views on fidelity if that's the case.
This may seem like an obvious one, but it's worth reiterating. Recent research shows that people who have cheated once are 3.5 times more likely to cheat on a subsequent partner. This doesn't mean someone isn'tmarriage material if they've cheated in the past, but experts suggest having a serious discussion about your partner's views on fidelity if that's the case.
His buddies are all tying the knot.
If it seems like you're going with him to more weddings than all-night happy hours, it probably means he's starting to think about settling down, too. “We hang out with people who are developmentally at our level," says Berman. "So when all our friends are getting married, it makes it less scary for us."
If it seems like you're going with him to more weddings than all-night happy hours, it probably means he's starting to think about settling down, too. “We hang out with people who are developmentally at our level," says Berman. "So when all our friends are getting married, it makes it less scary for us."
You feel like he's The One
We could give you a whole checklist of traits to cross off, but it's often your gut that will reveal how you truly feel. And according to research, that's actually a pretty good measure of a strong bond. In fact, gut feelings predicted future relationship happiness better than self-reported feelings, according to a 2013 study.
We could give you a whole checklist of traits to cross off, but it's often your gut that will reveal how you truly feel. And according to research, that's actually a pretty good measure of a strong bond. In fact, gut feelings predicted future relationship happiness better than self-reported feelings, according to a 2013 study.
IS HE IGNORING YOU?
Do you know there are things you can do during a difficult situation with a man to turn things around to your advantage?
Most women rely on pure luck or chance and hope that things will somehow get better with time. The truth is that it won’t unless you do something about it right now.
Let me share a solid step by step tactic you can apply to your situation right now, and see instant results…
Let’s say your man has been ignoring you a lot lately and is always too involved in his work. And you want him to spend a few moments of his day with you. Most women would be direct about this and go about it in the following way:
Woman – How come you never spend time with me anymore?
Man – Can’t you see I’m busy? I have a lot of work to do.
Woman – You are always working…It seems as if I don’t even exist in your world.
Man – Can’t you see why I work so hard?
Woman – Seems like you don’t really love me anymore…
And this is where useless arguments start and both parties end up highly frustrated.
Here is the golden secret. In order to be understood, you have to first understand. In other words, you have to show your man that you understand his situation first, before you expect him to understand yours. When you give it, you always get it back ten folds.
Once you understand his situation and cater to his needs, he will instantly cater to yours without any resistance. So now let me show you how to do it the right way. Instead of directly letting him know, try this:
Woman – You know I am really lucky to have you as my mate. You work so hard to provide me with everything. I just wanted to let you know I really appreciate everything you have done for me.
Man – Thank you very much, I am glad to have you in my life as well.
Woman – I am really sorry if I am disturbing you, I just felt like spending some time with you today, but if you are busy we can do this later.
Man – Oh honey! I am glad you are so understanding. I tell you what, I am almost done with this project, give me a couple of hours and we’ll go out to eat. Sounds good?
Woman – Sounds perfect!
And you see how easy things can be when you are willing to give before you expect to get anything in return. You can turn a difficult situation into an easy one just by making a few adjustments with your words. Now imagine if you were given a set of tools & tactics which will show you exactly how to tackle various situations with a man and always come out on top?
That’s exactly what I am going to show you next…I bet you’re thinking…But my personal situation is far more complicated and more intense than this. Do you have solutions for my situation too? Yes, I absolutely do…
7 THINGS TO DO AFTER A ONE NIGHT STAND
A girl should be prepared for everything, knowing what to do after a one night stand is no exception. Here are the ins and outs of what to do when you wake up the morning after a random hook up.
1. Remember What This Is
The first rule of the one night stand is to remember that this is not supposed to be special. It was how you wanted to spend your night, not the way you want to spend your life. Once you get it, you can feel happy knowing the night is over. Don’t get confused and expect that this is going to head somewhere. There’s always a chance that it might, but assume that’s not the case—it was just sex.
2. Don’t Text in Bed
Unless you want to be a jerk, or need to urgently contact someone, stay off your phone while in bed with him. It may be boring, but the guy will probably think you’re talking about him—he probably wouldn’t be wrong. The same goes double for talking on the phone. If you really want to talk to somebody else, take a bathroom break or go get something from the kitchen.
3. Don’t Snoop
If you’re at his place, don’t start snooping around. Not only is it rude, but it’s for your benefit as well. What if you find something that grosses you out? What if you see what cannot be unseen? Like a picture of him and his fiancée? The opposite goes into effect if he’s with you: hide anything that you don’t want some stranger to see.
4. Exchange the Digits?
Go ahead and get his number and give him yours. It leaves the door open to future hook ups if either of you need that late night booty call. Don’t expect a phone call, of course. This is mostly a courtesy. You can always block his number if you decide you don’t ever want to hear from him. Don’t set up a follow up phone call unless you want to feel really bad about yourself.
5. Skip Breakfast
Unless you really enjoy this person’s company and not just their body, pass on going out to breakfast with him. Excuse yourself and say you’ve got to get on with your day. These kind of meals are usually awkward if you don’t have anything in common besides the fact that the two of you just slept together.
6. Take Off Quickly
Like a Band-Aid. No one likes a stranger to hang around their apartment too long in any other circumstances, it goes the same for sex. Just because you two got it on doesn’t mean you’re staying on. Don’t hesitate to leave or to ask him to do so either.
7. Social Media Stalking
Is it okay to search for your one night stand on Facebook or Twitter? Yes, if you’re very curious. Now, should you befriend or follow that person? That’s a more delicate situation. You don’t want to come off as being a stalker. Maybe if you guys ever meet a second time you can make the next move on social media, but not before.
15 Tips for Talking to Women And Attract Them Like Crazy – Continued
Many men are never taught how to talk to women. Because of this many guys go through
life without the ability to attract a woman. Here are 15 tips to help
make sure you aren’t making mistakes with the women you’d like to
attract:
1. You should talk about “emotional” topics like childhood memories, future ambitions, or her passions. These conversation topics will open up her emotional floodgates.
2. Women want a guy who is not afraid to lead her. While talking to a woman take control of the conversation. Never wait for her to dictate what you’ll be talking about.
3. Pay attention to the non verbal cues a woman is giving you. If you’re standing too close to her, accidentally spitting when you talk, or making her feel uncomfortable in any way… she will send you hints. Pay attention to them.
4. Remember this motto “Fun not Funny.” Women are attracted to men who allow them to have fun. Don’t concentrate on having the funniest jokes. Concentrate on showing them the most excitement and enjoyment.
5. Tease women. One of the easiest ways to take a conversation to a fun and flirty level is to begin to tease women. Think back to your time on the playground. In the world of dating… what worked on the playground is effective all over again.
6. Get intimate with her. Women are turned on by men who are not afraid to take a conversation to a personal, intimate level.
7. Use things like “cold reads” to turn women on. Women love to hear opinions about themselves. Tell her what you observe about her.
8. Avoid complimenting a woman too much. Women are turned off by men who come across as “needy.” If you are complimenting a woman too much she will think you’re trying to impress her. Which will have the opposite effect.
9. If you want to know how to talk to women in a way that doesn’t bore them… Avoid asking too many “interview” style questions. Instead state your opinion about things.
10. Remember: Statements over questions. Instead of saying “where did you grow up?” Say “You don’t look like you grew up around here.” This allows you to make observations about her and express your personality.
11. Don’t hide your identity. Don’t be afraid to talk about whatever you’re passionate about.
12. Never compliment her on her eyes, looks, or body.
13. Say something that lets her know that you view her in a “sexual” way. If you don’t, you run the risk of winding up in the “friend zone”.
14. Use conversation “games” to keep the mood fun and flirtatious. Games can be anything like “truth or dare” or to less extreme games like the “5 questions game”.
15. Don’t give away your hand so fast. Women like men who are a challenge. If you want to keep a woman’s interest she has to feel like she is slowly winning you over. If she thinks you’re too easy… she’ll lose interest.
The best way to think about how to talk to women is to think about what kind of fun, playful, and sexual conversation you would most enjoy. Talking to a woman doesn’t have to be difficult. You just need to be aware of what they are turned on by and what turns them off. Follow the list above and you’ll do just fine.
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1. You should talk about “emotional” topics like childhood memories, future ambitions, or her passions. These conversation topics will open up her emotional floodgates.
2. Women want a guy who is not afraid to lead her. While talking to a woman take control of the conversation. Never wait for her to dictate what you’ll be talking about.
3. Pay attention to the non verbal cues a woman is giving you. If you’re standing too close to her, accidentally spitting when you talk, or making her feel uncomfortable in any way… she will send you hints. Pay attention to them.
4. Remember this motto “Fun not Funny.” Women are attracted to men who allow them to have fun. Don’t concentrate on having the funniest jokes. Concentrate on showing them the most excitement and enjoyment.
5. Tease women. One of the easiest ways to take a conversation to a fun and flirty level is to begin to tease women. Think back to your time on the playground. In the world of dating… what worked on the playground is effective all over again.
6. Get intimate with her. Women are turned on by men who are not afraid to take a conversation to a personal, intimate level.
7. Use things like “cold reads” to turn women on. Women love to hear opinions about themselves. Tell her what you observe about her.
8. Avoid complimenting a woman too much. Women are turned off by men who come across as “needy.” If you are complimenting a woman too much she will think you’re trying to impress her. Which will have the opposite effect.
9. If you want to know how to talk to women in a way that doesn’t bore them… Avoid asking too many “interview” style questions. Instead state your opinion about things.
10. Remember: Statements over questions. Instead of saying “where did you grow up?” Say “You don’t look like you grew up around here.” This allows you to make observations about her and express your personality.
11. Don’t hide your identity. Don’t be afraid to talk about whatever you’re passionate about.
12. Never compliment her on her eyes, looks, or body.
13. Say something that lets her know that you view her in a “sexual” way. If you don’t, you run the risk of winding up in the “friend zone”.
14. Use conversation “games” to keep the mood fun and flirtatious. Games can be anything like “truth or dare” or to less extreme games like the “5 questions game”.
15. Don’t give away your hand so fast. Women like men who are a challenge. If you want to keep a woman’s interest she has to feel like she is slowly winning you over. If she thinks you’re too easy… she’ll lose interest.
The best way to think about how to talk to women is to think about what kind of fun, playful, and sexual conversation you would most enjoy. Talking to a woman doesn’t have to be difficult. You just need to be aware of what they are turned on by and what turns them off. Follow the list above and you’ll do just fine.
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