So…sometimes guys need some help in the what-not-to-say department when talking to their girlfriends. Why? Because men seem to have no filter and they say things that sometimes really hurt or piss off women. So guys…we’re just trying to help you out here….with the top ten things to NEVER say to your girlfriend.
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1. “You’re not the prettiest girl I’ve dated.”
Whoa…ouch. Be nice, ok! And so what if it’s true? You may not be the hottest guy WE’VE dated, but we’re not about to SAY so. Plus, this comment will likely make us cry– and you don’t want to see that, do you?
2. “You look like my ex.”
No one wants to be compared to an ex — unless the ex is a model. But even then, why are you bringing her up? It makes us think that you’re thinking about her– and then we think you’d rather be with her and before you know it, we’re convinced you two are getting back together.
3. “You’d look better if [insert physical characteristic here].”
Guys? We don’t need to be told we should improve how we look. Can’t you just love us for how we already are? Improvement comments just make us feel very self conscious around and not comfortable with how we look. If you don’t like it…go somewhere else.
4. “That waitress/chick is hot!”
We get it — other chicks are hot. We also have eyeballs to see for ourselves. But please don’t tell us when you’re looking at other women…in fact, could you just not look at all? And while you’re at it, could you tell us that we’re hot more often, please? Thank you.
5. “Relax– you’re overreacting.”
You may be trying to calm us down but you just made us even angrier. Let us get mad and figure things out. Stop treating us like we’re crazy.
6.”Your sister is weird.”
Hey, we’re tight with our family — family is off-limits. Let it go or move on.
7. “There’s no way those jeans are gonna fit you.”
We don’t need fashion advice from you. Especially with your judgmental tone about our size. We know what fits and what doesn’t, thank you very much. Now leave us alone.
8. “Is it ‘that time of the month’? Because you’re being mean.”
Guys, don’t assume we’re crabby because we’re on our periods. This is a tricky one because if it is that time of the month, we’ll probably clobber you. And if it isn’t, well, we’ll probably clobber you. You’re not allowed to make comments about our menstrual cycle…at least anything other than, “Do you want chocolate and flowers, babe?”
9. “You look really different in the mornings.”
Okay, so we don’t wake up freshly showered with a full face of makeup. Sue us. It’s not fair that guys wake up looking almost exactly the same as when they fell asleep.
10. “It’s a guy thing. You wouldn’t understand.”
This one is just unfair. Give us a chance– we probably would understand and we could probably help– if you let us.
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