Do you know there are things you can do during a difficult situation with a man to turn things around to your advantage?
Most women rely on pure luck or chance and hope that things will somehow get better with time. The truth is that it won’t unless you do something about it right now.
Let me share a solid step by step tactic you can apply to your situation right now, and see instant results…
Let’s say your man has been ignoring you a lot lately and is always too involved in his work. And you want him to spend a few moments of his day with you. Most women would be direct about this and go about it in the following way:
Woman – How come you never spend time with me anymore?
Man – Can’t you see I’m busy? I have a lot of work to do.
Woman – You are always working…It seems as if I don’t even exist in your world.
Man – Can’t you see why I work so hard?
Woman – Seems like you don’t really love me anymore…
And this is where useless arguments start and both parties end up highly frustrated.
Here is the golden secret. In order to be understood, you have to first understand. In other words, you have to show your man that you understand his situation first, before you expect him to understand yours. When you give it, you always get it back ten folds.
Once you understand his situation and cater to his needs, he will instantly cater to yours without any resistance. So now let me show you how to do it the right way. Instead of directly letting him know, try this:
Woman – You know I am really lucky to have you as my mate. You work so hard to provide me with everything. I just wanted to let you know I really appreciate everything you have done for me.
Man – Thank you very much, I am glad to have you in my life as well.
Woman – I am really sorry if I am disturbing you, I just felt like spending some time with you today, but if you are busy we can do this later.
Man – Oh honey! I am glad you are so understanding. I tell you what, I am almost done with this project, give me a couple of hours and we’ll go out to eat. Sounds good?
Woman – Sounds perfect!
And you see how easy things can be when you are willing to give before you expect to get anything in return. You can turn a difficult situation into an easy one just by making a few adjustments with your words. Now imagine if you were given a set of tools & tactics which will show you exactly how to tackle various situations with a man and always come out on top?
That’s exactly what I am going to show you next…I bet you’re thinking…But my personal situation is far more complicated and more intense than this. Do you have solutions for my situation too? Yes, I absolutely do…
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